Boundaries :

⋆ Interact With Caution
⋆ Ask to Vent/Rant
⋆ Ask to send Friend/Follow Requests
⋆ Ask to DM _{^{(Unless Close)}}
⋆ Ask to Make Suicide/Self-Harm Jokes _{^{(Unless Close)}}
⋆ Okay to Ping/Mention.
⋆ Okay to Tease
⋆ Please use Tone Tags
⋆ Do not use Pet Names
⋆ Do not use Unreclaimable Slurs
⋆ Do not Flirt

Stances :

⋆ Anti-Shipping
⋆ Anti-IRLs
⋆ Anti-Use of Closed Symbols
⋆ Anti-Endogenic Systems
⋆ Anti-Spawnism
⋆ Anti-VRChat Phantom Pain _{^{(I will personally bully you if you tell me you have this. 1. No one should be having that much screentime. 2. There are settings available to prevent yourself from "getting hurt". Please either use them or touch grass.)}}
⋆ Pro-Choice
⋆ Pro-Sex Workers
⋆ Pro-LGBTQ+
⋆ Pro-Neo/Xenogenders
⋆ Pro-Neo/Xeno/Nounself Pronouns
⋆ Pro-Socialism
⋆ Pro-Furries
⋆ Pro-Recovery

DNI/Block-On-Sight :

⋆ Ableists
⋆ Racists
⋆ Sexists
⋆ Misogynists
⋆ Conservatives/Republicans
⋆ Pedophiles
⋆ Incest
⋆ Pro-Shippers
⋆ Anti-Sex Workers
⋆ Xenophobics
⋆ Anti-Neo/Xeno/Nounself Pronouns
⋆ Anti Neo/Xenogenders
⋆ Christians/Catholics
⋆ Trumpers
⋆ Anti-LGBTQ+
⋆ TERFS/SWERFS
⋆ Radical Feminists
⋆ Radical Queers
⋆ Pro-Lifers
⋆ Neo-Nazis/Nazis
⋆ Pharisaicals
⋆ Zoophiles
⋆ TransID/TransX/Transcum
⋆ Fascists
⋆ Spawnists
⋆ Anti-Recovery

Avoided Topics :

⋆ Fandom Discourse
⋆ Celebrity Discourse
⋆ System Discourse
⋆ Gender Discourse
⋆ Political Debates
⋆ Religious Debates
⋆ Substance Abuse
⋆ Child Abuse
⋆ Animal Abuse
⋆ Domestic Abuse
⋆ War/Country Conflicts

Important to Know :

⋆ When I upset you, please communicate to me and let me know how I can help make it better. I'm not good at confrontations, and I will either shut down, get defensive, or lash out if I feel like I'm getting cornered as a defense mechanism. I will make things much worse for you, and myself. My age does not equal my maturity and how well I handle my emotions. Just because I am an adult does not mean I am capable of reacting to situations in a decent manner.⋆ Avoid using "ok" and "k". These are dry responses to me, and they feel passive aggressive. "Okay" is much better and doesn't make me think you hate me or I upset you.⋆ Don't vent directly to me unless you ask first. I care far too much, so I'll try to get involved to fix your problems, even when I'm not supposed to. Even though I have good intentions, I can only make things worse. I don't always realize I'm doing it.⋆ My brain is split into two. Borderline Personality Disorder makes me split people into two categories: good and bad. For me, there's no middle-ground. When you yell at me, that line wavers, and I begin doubting how I feel about you. This isn't intentional.⋆ I have Short-Term Memory Loss, which disables me from making long-term memories if they aren't repetitive enough or linked to strong emotions. If you tell me something, chances are, I'll completely forget it by tomorrow unless I've written it down. Please expect to repeat yourself multiple times.⋆ I swear a lot as a form of self-expression and self-comfort. I don't do it because I think it's "cool". I very rarely swear at anyone unless I'm very angry.⋆ ⚠️ I am _{^{(unintentionally)}} toxic and emotionally abusive. It's a problem I'm aware of, and I've been struggling to get better with the help of therapy. Please be patient with me and make sure you remain communicative and stern about your personal boundaries.⋆ I may need to be reassured multiple times.⋆ Above all else, please be patient with me. I am an unstable individual who struggles to maintain friendships and relationships. It's better to approach me with understanding rather than hostility, as I will react to hostility with my own if you give me no choice. I will certainly apologize and take accountability for my behavior, but I'm a slow learner, and it takes me a couple of tries to learn from my mistakes. I'm trying to learn new coping/defense mechanisms that are less hurtful to those around me, but these things take time. If you ever feel unsafe or upset, the best thing to do is to step away from me for a while. Intense confrontations are very triggering for me due to past events, and will only make things worse. When I do something wrong, please remain calm while talking to me, because chances are, I didn't mean to be malicious.